I controversially asked for my husbands hand on the last leap year;
the twenty seventh of February twenty twelve. I asked his mother how she would feel, “if it would cause you any problem at all,” said the nervous I,” we can continue as normal and he need never know.” I heard myself delivering her an exit; an escape route.
She heard me out, her piercing blue eyes looking above her spectacles she watched me with an intensity of an opthalmic instrument. When I had finished she asked what I would do if he said no. “I will continue to love him as long as he wants me to.” I said.
She closed her book stood up, looked down at my four foot eleven frame and said, “You’ll do, close the door on the way out won’t you?”
This lady born in ninteen eighteen had lived a life that has long since gone, I wanted to afford her the respect that her age deserved. Unfortunately she died before the twenty ninth of February never knowing what his answer was. We married on a beach in Hawaii and he looked me in the eyes as he loudly said “You’ll do”.
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You two are adorable!
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So sweet, love this tradition!!! My husband and I were officially hitched this past leap day. 🙂
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Thank you for reading and chatting, I think leap year propasals are special… but then I would. 😇
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All together now;
“Aahhhh!”
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*whispers* A wonderful life.
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Reblogged this on Kate McClelland.
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Thank you so much Kate. 😇
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Loved it . His words an echo of her.
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Thank you that was exactly what it was. Please come again soon.
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Wowh! So sweet. Happy belated anniversary. 🙂
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Wow!!!! Speechless. And glad to have found you…
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Thank you, Sugar? *grins*
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Awww…. It’s a love story! Romantic! Congratulations!
Hi Ellen,
Thanks for coming to my St. Patrick’s Day Blog Party today. I thought your comments were amusing. Never too late to party.
Janice
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Thank you.
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I love it. Just my kind of gal. Happy anniversary and many more to come.
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This made me cry, how beautiful. I proposed to my boyfriend, now fiancee, this leap year too 🙂
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It made my eyes leak too. Thank you for reading. If you are as happy as we, i can say forever happy you’ll be. 😇 cheesy is good
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Expecting our first baby too, found out Friday, we’re very happy thank you 🙂 and even more happy days to come now 😀 love some cheesy lines!
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Congratulations you will be happy I just know it! 😇
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How beautiful! This story warms my heart. Happy Anniversary!
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Thank you Rose, 😇 warm hearts are good.
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This is so lovely 😀 ❤️
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Hi Ellen,
“You’ll do” XD
Beautiful and heart-warming story, it put a big smile on my face. Happy anniversary to you both, I wish you a lifetime of love and blessings.
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I thought that in todays climate peiple would comment on this not being very girl power , and i have been surprised at the lovely comments from everyone. Thank you for joining in. 😇
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Ah! Love is love is love. Holding back one’s feelings because of “Girl power” seems silly when you finally meet the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. 😉
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Indeed I was scared but not to proud.
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A wonderful love story. I am sure him mother was happily watching. :o)
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A formidable woman, very much of the stamp that the dowager that Maggie Smith plays in Downton Abbey, i believe she liked my authentic honesty so she allowed me in.
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Congratulations! So much of that story has resonance for me. My father met The Husband but didn’t see us married – we are still sad about that. He had, however, given his approval: somehow he knew before I did, that it was meant to be.
The Husband’s mother died after that and after he had proposed, but before we could tell her. Her sign of approval came, literally on her deathbed. One of the last things she said was when we arrived to visit, two days before she died, “Hello there, you two!” She had never greeted us as a twosome.
And back to my old Dad, whose birthday would have been this month, and about whom I intend writing: the only, and best compliment I ever received from him: “You’ll do!” said with his twinkly blue eyes and a big smile.
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Thank you for sharing your story. My husband was the only man, other than immediate family that i ever seen my Father hug. The memory is magnificent in the face of their departure.
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Beautiful love story. Happy Anniversary to you both.
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Thank you the anniversary of the asking… maybe I should have brought a card 😇
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Reblogged this on femininematerz and commented:
A classic case of a woman who proposed to her beloved on the 29th February…A Leap year. I found it intriguing! Happy Anniversary Ellen.
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Happy Anniversary…so you are a case in point of a woman who proposed to her beloved something i just found out and talked about in this post https://femininematerz.wordpress.com/2016/02/29/interesting-things-about-a-leap-year/…so delightful and happy you got a loud yes! Will reblog this post on my page…my way of celebrating you and your husband.
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Happy Anniversary…so you are a case in point of a woman who proposed to her beloved something i just found out and talked about in this posthttps://femininematerz.wordpress.com/2016/02/29/interesting-things-about-a-leap-year/…so delightful and happy you got a loud yes! Will reblog this post on my page…my way of celebrating you and your husband.
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Thank you very much.
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A nudge in the right direction.
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The important thing was getting the aproval really. But I would have nudged if I needed to.
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What a great memory. Too bad she didn’t get to hear the answer in person, but at least you had her blessing. 😊
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That’s what we think.
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Adorable, good thing you gave him that little push he needed to see he wanted to marry you 😉
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The twist in the tale is he had already arranged the wedding without my knowing and without knowing I’d asked Mother.
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Oh, even sweeter!
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Ah, so romantic 🙂
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The you’ll do bit was scary but worth every second of fear, to get her aproval.
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Sounds like she approved of you 🙂
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A minister who had been her friend for many years said that ‘you’ll do’ was the highest acceptance that he’d ever known her to give
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Way to go!
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Thank you.
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Happy Anniversary and I am sure that you “do” more over and over.
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It is the anniversary; of the great ask.
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